<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" ?><!-- generator=Zoho Sites --><rss version="2.0" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"><channel><atom:link href="https://www.happinessmattersfoundation.org/blogs/tag/il-vicino/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><title>Happiness Matters Foundation - Notes from the Wild - Blog #Il Vicino</title><description>Happiness Matters Foundation - Notes from the Wild - Blog #Il Vicino</description><link>https://www.happinessmattersfoundation.org/blogs/tag/il-vicino</link><lastBuildDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2026 08:13:42 -0700</lastBuildDate><generator>http://zoho.com/sites/</generator><item><title><![CDATA[Apparently, Lunch Needed a Plot Twist]]></title><link>https://www.happinessmattersfoundation.org/blogs/post/apparently-lunch-needed-a-plot-twist</link><description><![CDATA[<img align="left" hspace="5" src="https://www.happinessmattersfoundation.org/lunch.png"/>Sometimes the best stories begin with the simplest plans. A lunch with a friend became another reminder that ordinary days rarely stay ordinary for long.]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="zpcontent-container blogpost-container "><div data-element-id="elm_-dRQlciXSRGz0FR8ND1czA" data-element-type="section" class="zpsection "><style type="text/css"></style><div class="zpcontainer-fluid zpcontainer"><div data-element-id="elm_uuBivHyjT3-PvMt8oiciFQ" data-element-type="row" class="zprow zprow-container zpalign-items- zpjustify-content- " data-equal-column=""><style type="text/css"></style><div data-element-id="elm_Ut1MHINfT9WGLzft4AO5WQ" data-element-type="column" class="zpelem-col zpcol-12 zpcol-md-12 zpcol-sm-12 zpalign-self- "><style type="text/css"></style><div data-element-id="elm_HaeZ5_HPS-U-bGKv8JHtiA" data-element-type="text" class="zpelement zpelem-text "><style></style><div class="zptext zptext-align-left zptext-align-mobile-left zptext-align-tablet-left " data-editor="true"><p></p><div><h2></h2></div><p></p><h2 style="text-align:center;line-height:1;"><span style="font-family:&quot;Finger Paint&quot;, cursive;font-size:20px;"></span></h2><span style="font-style:italic;"><div style="text-align:center;"><div><p><span style="font-size:20px;"><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span>I left home craving pizza and basil lemonade. Life decided to serve a comedy instead.</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></p></div></div></span><h2 style="text-align:center;line-height:1;"><span style="font-family:&quot;Finger Paint&quot;, cursive;font-size:20px;"></span></h2></div>
</div><div data-element-id="elm_NBJAp3FdSmG6UHQYUdlIdA" data-element-type="text" class="zpelement zpelem-text "><style></style><div class="zptext zptext-align-center zptext-align-mobile-center zptext-align-tablet-center " data-editor="true"><p style="text-align:left;"></p><div><p><strong></strong></p></div><p></p><p></p><div style="text-align:left;"><div style="line-height:1.5;"><p></p><div><p><strong></strong></p></div><p></p><p></p><div><div style="line-height:1.2;"><p></p><div><p><strong></strong></p></div><p></p><p></p><div><div style="line-height:1.5;"><p></p><div><p><strong></strong></p></div><p></p><p></p><div><p></p><div><p></p></div><div><p></p></div></div><div><p></p></div><div><p></p></div><div><p></p></div><div><p></p></div><div><p></p></div><div><p></p><div><p>One of the things I've discovered over the years is that my life rarely follows the script. Even the simplest plans somehow grow their own personality. What starts as &quot;I'm just going to lunch with a friend&quot; somehow turns into a full-blown adventure, complete with unexpected plot twists, a few good laughs, and another reminder that life has an incredible sense of humor.</p><p><br/></p><p>Today's destination was Il Vicino Wood Oven Pizza here in Colorado Springs, one of my favorite restaurants. Yes, the pizza is amazing, but if I'm being completely honest, they are also responsible for introducing me to something I never knew I needed in my life.</p><p><br/></p><p>Basil lemonade.</p><p><br/></p><p>Whoever first looked at basil and lemonade and thought,&nbsp;<em>These two belong together,</em>&nbsp;deserves some kind of culinary award. Paired with their Bianca pizza, it's one of my favorite meals, and I had been looking forward to it all morning.</p><p><br/></p><p>The adventure, however, began long before I ever saw a slice of pizza.</p><p><br/></p><p>I happily made my way down the steps into the garage, transferred into Persephone without any issues, got comfortable, buckled my seatbelt, smiled to myself, and pressed the start button.</p><p><br/></p><p>Nothing.</p><p><br/></p><p>Not even a polite little attempt.</p><p><br/></p><p>For a split second my brain started running through all the possibilities.&nbsp;<em>Please don't tell me Persephone has decided she needs another spa day.</em></p><p><br/></p><p>Then it hit me.</p><p><br/></p><p>The key.</p><p><br/></p><p>Apparently, push-button start still requires the key to actually be in the vehicle. Details... details.</p><p><br/></p><p>Fortunately, Jeff was still home. He walked out to the garage with the key, handed it to me with a grin, and we both started laughing. It wasn't exactly the dramatic start to my outing I'd imagined, but it certainly fit the pattern my life seems to enjoy.</p><p><br/></p><p>Round two went much more smoothly.</p><p><br/></p><p>I drove to the restaurant, parked, unhooked Evi from her tie-downs, and watched the ramp quietly slide out of Persephone. If you haven't met Evi yet, allow me to introduce you. She's my fully decked-out power wheelchair — basically the Rolls Royce of wheelchairs. She has all the bells and whistles, which means once she's loaded and ready to go, she makes life wonderfully easy.</p><p><br/></p><p>Persephone gets me there. Evi makes sure I can actually enjoy being there.</p><p><br/></p><p>I rolled down the ramp, looked around, and thought,&nbsp;<em>Well... here we go.</em>&nbsp;Everything worked beautifully, which always feels like a little victory.</p><p><br/></p><p>Lunch was exactly what I'd hoped it would be. Great food, wonderful conversation, and yes... basil lemonade that somehow tasted even better than I remembered. Those are the moments I treasure most — not because anything spectacular happens, but because life slows down long enough to simply enjoy another human being's company.</p><p><br/></p><p>About halfway through lunch, another thought crossed my mind.</p><p><br/></p><p>I need to find the restroom.</p><p><br/></p><p>This was actually my first visit to Il Vicino since life became a little more... wheely. Whenever I go somewhere new in Evi, there's always that brief moment of wondering,&nbsp;<em>I hope I can actually get into the restroom.</em></p><p><br/></p><p>I'm happy to report Il Vicino passed with flying colors. I maneuvered through the restaurant without any issues, the restroom was genuinely accessible, and for once I wasn't trying to figure out some creative way to make things work. It may sound like a small thing, but it really isn't. Accessibility isn't about special treatment. It's about being able to enjoy lunch without wondering whether you'll be able to use the bathroom when nature inevitably calls. That simple peace of mind is a gift, and Il Vicino earned another gold star in my book.</p><p><br/></p><p>Eventually it was time to head home.</p><p><br/></p><p>Evi rolled back into Persephone like the seasoned professional she is, the tie-downs clicked securely into place, the ramp quietly retracted back into the van, and before long I was pulling into my garage thinking what a lovely, uneventful afternoon it had been.</p><p><br/></p><p>Or so I thought.</p><p><br/></p><p>I made my way back up the steps, reached for the door handle...</p><p><br/></p><p>Locked.</p><p><br/></p><p>The house was empty.</p><p><br/></p><p>And then came my second realization of the day.</p><p><br/></p><p>Apparently, I also hadn't brought my house key.</p><p><br/></p><p>In my defense, Jeff had been home when I left, so why would I need a key?</p><p><br/></p><p>Well... because people leave the house.</p><p><br/></p><p>Who knew?</p><p>Thankfully, cell phones exist. One quick call later, Jeff came to rescue me once again, unlocked the door, and my grand adventure officially came to an end.</p><p><br/></p><p>As I sat there laughing at myself, I realized this is exactly why I enjoy sharing these little stories. From the outside, it sounds like I simply went to lunch with a friend. End of story.</p><p><br/></p><p>Except that's never really the story.</p><p><br/></p><p>The story is forgetting the car key, discovering that basil lemonade is still every bit as wonderful as I remembered, appreciating thoughtful accessibility, sharing meaningful conversation, forgetting the house key, and laughing through every bit of it. None of it was earth-shattering. None of it was life-changing.</p><p><br/></p><p>It was simply life.</p><p><br/></p><p>Beautifully imperfect, wonderfully ordinary, and just unpredictable enough to remind me that even the most routine days can become memorable if we're paying attention.</p><p><br/></p><p>I've decided life isn't measured by how exciting our plans are. It's measured by how willing we are to laugh when those plans decide to improvise. Today wasn't really about pizza. It wasn't even about forgetting two keys. It was about another wonderfully ordinary day that somehow became another story worth telling.</p><p><br/></p><p>And honestly...</p><p><br/></p><p>I wouldn't have it any other way.</p></div><p></p><h2><strong><span style="font-size:24px;">What about you?</span></strong></h2><div><h2></h2><p>Has an ordinary day ever surprised you with a couple of unexpected plot twists? 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